How to Know If Someone Is Your Soulmate, According to Astrology
Astrology8 min readFeb 2025

How to Know If Someone Is Your Soulmate, According to Astrology

The specific chart placements that indicate a rare soul-level connection.

Astrology has a precise vocabulary for the connections that change us. Not every relationship is a soulmate connection, and not every soulmate connection is romantic. The word soulmate has been so overused that it has lost most of its meaning. In classical astrology, the concept is more specific and more interesting than popular culture suggests.

What Astrology Actually Says About Soulmates

In synastry, the branch of astrology that analyses the relationship between two charts, certain planetary contacts are consistently associated with relationships that feel fated, transformative, and difficult to explain rationally. These are not the contacts that make a relationship easy. They are the contacts that make it significant.

The North Node Connection

The single most reliable indicator of a soulmate connection in synastry is a contact between one person's North Node and the other person's personal planets, particularly the Sun, Moon, Venus, or Mars. When this contact exists, there is a quality to the relationship that feels both familiar and destined. The North Node person often feels that the planet person is showing them something they need to learn. The planet person often feels inexplicably drawn to the North Node person without being able to explain why.

Saturn Contacts: The Ones That Last

Saturn contacts in synastry are often dismissed because they carry a reputation for difficulty. This is a misreading. Saturn contacts, particularly Saturn conjunct or opposite the Sun, Moon, or Venus, are the contacts most associated with long-term, committed relationships. They carry weight, seriousness, and a quality of mutual responsibility that lighter contacts do not. If you are looking for a connection that lasts, look for Saturn.

The Composite Chart

Beyond synastry, the composite chart, which is the chart of the relationship itself, reveals the nature and purpose of the connection. A composite chart with a strong 8th house emphasis indicates a transformative, soul-level connection. A strong 12th house emphasis indicates a karmic connection that may have roots in past lives. A strong 5th house emphasis indicates a connection characterised by joy, creativity, and mutual delight.

What This Does Not Mean

A soulmate connection in astrology does not mean a comfortable connection. Some of the most significant soulmate connections in the astrological literature are also some of the most challenging. The purpose of a soulmate is not to make your life easy. It is to make you more fully yourself. That process is rarely comfortable.

Getting Your Soulmate Reading

The Soulmate Compass reading analyses both your natal chart and the chart of the person you are inquiring about, identifies the specific contacts between them, and provides a detailed interpretation of what those contacts mean for the nature, purpose, and trajectory of the connection.

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